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  1. Dee 02.07.2022 at 06:40

    My therapist said this to me recently and I thought he must think I’m really difficult and might not want to continue with me. I do try and speak but I find it incredibly hard. I suppose he does see me as you say above, stony and unreachable.

  2. Tim Hill 14.07.2022 at 06:43

    Hi Dee, perhaps you could ask him about this? The resulting discussion could help you understand each other a little better – Tim

  3. Kathy 13.09.2022 at 07:44

    I have been trying to communicate with a man who used me and then threw me away many years ago. He treated me like he loved me, but when I got too close and said, “I love you,” he ended the relationship. Later he said he wanted me back but I didn’t get back with him. Now, years later he is shocked that I was hurt by him. He was completely oblivious to my feelings. He is just now starting to realize that his actions harmed me. I think he might be a narcissist, and it’s painful for me to realize that he never loved me and just used me.

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